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Managing daily life with utmost care...

Time management from sunrise to sunset....nutrition management...health management...speech management...professional actions for money-earning...mental entertainment through movies, songs, work of art and enjoyment of natural beauty....relationship management....being perfect in all activities....a continuous striving for a life-time....saving money for hard times...enjoying food and drinks...giving time to family members...taking time to laugh at things....sense of humor...having some fun...controlling emotions....understanding politics, power, economics and diplomacy for handling life as a balanced one...finding balance of time, energy, emotions, ideals and thinking for sublime ideologies of life, society, politics and economics...

Lessons from my local business people...

Opening shops in proper time everyday...sitting idle without any sight of customers for a long time....closing shop in time...satisfied with what they earn...sticking to their own profession....not vacillating characters they are....used to 'not experimenting with life'...especially the fish-sellers have steadfast determination to earn good amount of money and go home in time...eat and sleep...get up at 3 a.m. for bringing fish to the market place....they work hard and forget everything else of life....they live a peaceful life through hard work and they hardly bother about fake 'social respect' and 'power' in the society...they solve their problems by spending money...

Quality & Quantity balancing....

When highest importance is attached to quality, quantity must not matter much....but minimum quantity should be ensured to get things done perfectly....As I am a person concerned with highest quality in anything, my consideration for quantity depends upon on specific cases of significance....otherwise I shut down my door to 'quantity'....stupids run after 'quantitative aspects of money, wealth, muscle-power and pleasures, name and fame....persons of quality run after nothings...others run after them, but only a few get their 'blessings' in some form or the other....

Among all fields of human activities, money is toughest of all....

Money is the toughest thing in life...as money is never freely available...people have to sacrifice life, if they don't have money...no doctor, no hospital, no government office, agencies , or the wealthy ones never give out money with 'reasons'...the reasons are the toughest of all human conditions... ......life and death are directly dependent on life...standard of living...healthcare....education...housing...electricity...computers...nutrition....are all beyond the capacity of the most ordinary people who act as slaves to mightier sections of the society....mightier and the rich are the greater ego-holders ob the planet and they are the most harmful ones with regard to ecological balance...

My teaching classroom is like a studio...

As various actors act in a cinema studio, my students are also actors here, whereas I am the director, producer and controller of all events relating to academic development and fine-tuning....development is the 'key' word... .....without development, the whole system is meaningless and dry.... .....we must enjoy various aspects of knowledge-development and attainment of perfection (KDAP) in what we all do...without constant striving for attainment of perfection , life itself  will become dry, stupid and non-significant to live in....

Practical intelligence is much different from theoretical intelligence and knowledge....

Theory and practicals are much different from each other..while applying theory in practice, a lot many considerations are to be made and high level of common sense is absolutely necessary to get things done at the end of a day...people with all theories are basically fools trying trying to solve problems of real life through bookish knowledge.... ....hands-on-practice(HOP) is of paramount importance to get things done in practice... ....as bookish knowledge is just lacking in common sense and real-life complexities....practical people are more prosperous, whereas theoretical people are mostly nagging type of burdensome characters in any society....

I talk as least as possible, but talking like a lion, when required...

I have mentally fixed my rate of talking to somebody...it must around Rs.50/--Rs.100/- per completed sentence...hence my talking is now limited to a few sentences per day...including my teaching assignments...as knowledge should never be free of cost...I had burnt midnight's oil for many years of my life and came to certain conclusions and such academic and philosophical theorems are never free for anybody....You can also try this, if you are extremely confident about your knowledge, wisdom and intuition about life, society, technology, mathematics, psychology and management...I am though basically a 'academic management consultant(AMC) at Kolkata & I prefer to remain confined in the super specialty domain of igniting minds through academic tuning and adaptation......

I want to live 24 hours for God....

Whatever is being done by me, is done with God's help and I am doing it only to ignite minds of others so that the society becomes a better place to live in... ...I live for me as well as for others and I have learnt how not to compromise with untruth, dishonesty and dirty people around me...I wish to live for Truth, God and Beauty through my activities here, now and with myself as the child of God...

Amitabh-ji & Rakhi-ji in Anusandhan movie...

Both these characters in the Bengali Movie ANUSANDHAN has been a great source of inspiration and entertainment for me , for a long time...the movie itself is a source of wholesome entertainment for all bengali people... you can watch it for yourself...dialogues and songs are marvelous....there lies the purity of pleasure and aesthetics...

My recent achievement....

I am trying my level best to cut off all relations with people who are jealous of me, as a person... I have cut off most of such bastards from my life and I am saving a lot of time... I am now meeting people of high quality only and I am trying to be extremely selective about my clients... Filtering out the wrong clients is my first target.... Secondly, through counseling I try to understand the deeper psychology of the would-be clients and then I decide whether to take enough responsibility to use my time effectively...

Learning is a never-ending process...

I now understand that I need to learn even from my juniors.... Learning has taken a back-seat...everything is now becoming hollow, rubbish and google-based... Through counseling of the new students and guardians, I am learning newer things of life , academics, society and psychology.... New facts are getting revealed.... Academics has become so cheap now-a-days and sometimes, I get frustrated by such over-commercialization. and corporatism in Indian education system...... Highest importance in academics lies in achieving highest level of mental concentration(MC).... Without mental concentration(MC), life is like that of a mad monkey or a stray dog... MC will also be foundation of Self-confidence(SC) that is the basis of our social  & professional existence.... More concentrated you, more will be your self-assessment(SA) and self-confidence(SC) i.e. SAAC, the trade mark of your existence in society and profession....

Patience matters...

One of my old friends told me: 1. I don't have enough patience for any good thing to wait for... 2. i have never been a careerist....a fickle-mind fellow... Such observations are now helping me a lot.... I am trying to improve upon these points.... I am happy that some results are promising , while acting on these two aspects of my personal life... Not meeting people without prior appointment has been a great 'turning point' in my life, as I have reduced waste of my valuable time... Time is money, time is all-powerful...time is a great source of self-empowerment and a divine living.... 25% of my time should now be devoted to God only, I feel...

Stop giving advice to others...

Firstly and lastly, give advice to yourself... Preach what you have have practiced well long before on yourself.... Listening is a religion, but following should not be, unless and until you have clarified the thing from your innermost voice...

Stop giving expert comments...

It is the worst habit to give expert comment and advice on anything and everything.... Confine yourself to your super specialty domains only and earn a decent living by working hard for serving the right kind of people in your society... Ignore everything else in life... Stop giving attention to all 'bull-shits' around you...

Personality grooming is a life-long struggle for one and all...

A well-groomed personality is a great asset in any society... Many scoundrels will say many things about you, but it is solely on you how to groom yourself and present yourself confidently for facing any situation in life.... Self-train yourself everyday for being stronger as a person in some manner... Never stop learning ..... Learn and apply things in practice... Stop being soft to scoundrels... Punish the scoundrels with greater understanding of politics, diplomacy and dynamics of money & muscle power with you.... Forget everything else except your own mental and spiritual peace and physical well-being.... Ensure sufficient oxygen in your life , in the form of giving love and affection to those deserving few in your personal life....

Trying hard to comeback to normal life....

Life has become full of sufferings for me for last three months... Suffering is a great teacher... Suffering has become my personal guru... Suffering has almost devastated my brain and mind... Then suddenly, I thought, I must survive... surviving as a strong man... Sisir Mazumder (SM) is now Strong Man (SM), after a lot of mind-training by self.... As I have studied homeopathy in depth, some of the medicines are working for me, as part of self-medication.... Yoga has been made apart and parcel of my daily life.... Allopathy doctors (seven doctors consulted in last three months) has ditched me on many occasions... My mind-training by self is helping me a lot.... I am listening to many opinions and taking my own decisions now, and I feel, I am now behaving like an adult... I am trying to lead a more disciplined life with Date-Time-Venue-Menu-Persons(DTVMP) clarity and concerns and I am deriving great benefits out of my DTVMP principles and practices of my daily work outc

Focus of my present life...

s peech management, silent mode and listening cycles of the daily life... cautious approach toward eating food...focus on lighter meals only.... drinking at least 4 liters of water... focus on herbal and homeopathic cures for self... focus on my duties at work place... enjoying what I am doing at any moment of the day... avoiding much interaction with various types of human beings and finding peace within... reduction of worries of various types and living in the present...

What did I learn today....

applying practical sense of humor keep me mentally in better mood..... while teaching, I am trying to be in a lighter mood to keep stress away... drinking a larger quantity of water helps my body detoxification and this can be felt in various moments of the day... 'being down to earth' makes me feel better, as the false vanity results into a poisonous mind and a weaker body... divines names give me silent energy to move ahead in life.... taking 'light' means keeps me more active and energetic...and hence I have decided not to burden my stomach for any future time, and I shall take the final decision about what to eat and how much to take...and I shall never entertain anybody to take the decision in my favor... 'learning from others' will remain a great 'mantra' of my life from now onward, as it is totally free of cost...only investment is to keenly observe things and absorb the gist of lessons from the surroundings... 'life is an open book

Meticulous perfection is required of a teacher....

As a teacher for a long time, I have not given much attention to the following facts: a teacher must be more organized(O) as a person , than any other professionals.... a teacher must be systematic and methodical SAM) Hence a teacher should a organized-systematic-and-methodical(OSAM) as a professional.... After almost two decades of continuous teaching, I came to this conclusion and I am trying hard to be OSAM.... One more thing strikes my mind every now and then: a good teacher should mostly follow some 'funny' ways of teaching a subject... one must invent one's own 'funny ways'...so that students find the teaching quite interesting, funny and least burden-some... A teacher must be straight-forward, 100% clear with his concepts, equations and formula-derivations etc. so that he or she is widely regarded as a 'role-model' in the field... Being a role-model and behaving & acting in a sublime manner should be the basic foundation in

'Learning from others' is the greatest attitude for self-development...

Life is an open book.... This is free of cost... It does not cost anything to learn from others, from accurate observations of their behaviors ans speeches, their special experiences.... I have learnt a lot from others, and still I am trying to learn... Learning is a never-ending process.... Learnt things are our capital from which we can earn life-long dividends.... People who are expert in Education & Training possess great knowledge and scholarship.... 'Knowledge & scholarship' coupled with 'Creative & Innovative' teaching methodology is the biggest invisible  asset of a person.... This asset will certainly give him or her high amount of dividends ,throughout one's life....  Knowledge is a great personal power from which one could earn great amount of money and create wealth for self and the society.... Hence we should continuously learn and apply the concepts gathered for gainful professional engagements...

Four pillars required for a happier living(4H...

4-H's as foundation of a life of fulfillment.... hard work hobbies happy family health in good shape First 2-H's will make life vibrant, dynamic and prosperous... If we can work harder than our contemporaries or competitors, we shall surely be more successful and more prosperous.... To keep mental balance and mental happiness intact , we must spend some time with our own selves by remaining immersed in our hobbies that work as a great morale and spiritual booster in anybody's life....

Enhancing happiness...one method...

Keep silent for a few hours...plan and do it....periodically fill the mind with vacuum and feel its soothing on body, mind and soul...One may try to feel God in this way... This is one newer method of meditation... try it and feel it personally... Life is an illusion, you can feel it...Life is a miracle , you can feel it...Life is in automatic mode and main key is in the Hands of God, you just can feel it... Feel God and fall in love with Him & be just happy in this present moment...

Classical flute music....

Classical flute music is soothing and can keep us in deep meditative states that would surely lead us to enhanced physical and mental well-being....anytime..anywhere...with anyone.... Feel it in your own ways.... Just feel it once and you would be greatly mesmerized... This is one method of enjoying life in a sublime state....

A great lesson about business development....

I am watching a good number of business people in my locality...year after after they are steadily pursuing business in the same domain....they may not do much well...but they never changed their domains...they open the shops in correct time...close the same in accurate time...they may sit idle for a long time, as there is no customer to be seen....still they hold on with patience and do the same duties day after day, year after year.... Such tenacity and patience is required for any business person... These people are perfect in opening and closing their shops and sit idle for a long time... Instead of vacillating from one trade to another, they stick to what they are specialist in....they also try modernizing things in their areas of activities...faster they adapt themselves to changing times and trends, more developed are their businesses....  I must salute all these ordinary people who display extraordinary courage, confidence and tenacity in day to day life ....

Business requires tenacity than doing a normal job...

Any business activity is full of challenges...and a businessman's brain is much more powerful that a serviceman doing a salaried job.... Business involves additional uncertainty, risks and courage.... Business means greater of money too.... and it has the highest potential to develop, if done with steadfast determination, dynamism and customized & quality services.... Hence, instead of looking for a salaried job, one may try entrepreneurship, if one possesses right kind of tenacity, determination and a strong mindset to excel in business and create wealth in the society in variety of forms.... Try a business and hold on it...try hard to satisfy your customers...go an extra mile and leave all other things to God....

After a long time, I realized a new thing in my life...

If am focused upon doing something, I can do it very well.... In earlier times, I would have been simply 'impatient' about anything and everything in my life... I never had a steady mind and had been a most vacillating character and used to do a lot of mistakes... I had been in the habit of doing things in the quickest manner for any human being, and I would not have things revised even once.... As I am rectifying myself in many dimensions, I feel more satisfied and my self-confidence is slowly take a balanced shape.... I have certainly improved my ' Sharpen your listening skills-first'(SYLS-first) policy and practices & I have been able to absorb a lot of 'insights' into human characters.... Face-reading is one of my hobbies and my inner prediction of a customer mostly comes true in real life.... All these have helped me in sharpening my 'management skills(MS)... MS occupies the highest place in living a happier and peaceful life by being abl

Take action today...

  If you have suffering from types of psychological complexes and self-doubts, stop suffering from now and here.... Live in the present...and analyze things objectively and scientifically....program your thinking process such that you overcome complexes instantly.... Be courageous and delete all types of complex and straighten your thoughts one by one.... Remove all the major complexes from today... Be yourself.... Be your own boss... Command yourself to achieving personal excellence from now... Have strict command and control on your own self and be your own master... The society respects the bold and the courageous.... Weaker people have no place in the limelight in any social situation connected with politics, economics, diplomacy... The best way out is train yourself by your own self only...free of cost Be your own boss in this matter.... Self-training is free of cost... Self-training agenda will be based upon all observations ,made with keenness and earnest, with

What are we doing with this life?

simple breathing without much conscious effort, in automatic mode, as if God is forcing us to live ... doing a lot of thinking and talking: amount of thinking is proportional to the frequency of breathing... to breathe, we need to eat food etc. doing lot of work to earn money and sustain a standard living... doing professional work, as a specialist... talking a lot to convince others or to prove to others that we are some great people... continuously trying to develop means and methods to derive some  type of pleasure out of doing something, dreaming about something... doing our duties with certain consistency, regularity and a sense of responsibility... taking big decisions for future which can never be predicted with 100% accuracy... negotiating a deal... looking after economic aspects of life and living... buying things for fulfilling necessities or to satisfy the mind with some luxurious items/gadgets... doing some good to others, for satisfaction... praying to Go

Deficit of trust in modern civilization...

One can never trust a human mind, as it acts like a mad monkey or a normal monkey that completely restless, driven by impulses,has no deep thought or philosophy, and such a monkey can ditch anybody at any time....hence a few with mental tranquillity and practical intelligence... Today's friend turns into an enemy with slightest conflict ... Hence,be your friend first and relate with others sweetly ,as and when required. Humans are most unpredictable, and we must be extremely selective in putting our blind trust... Trust is like a thin vessel made of glass, and it can break at the spur of the moment, if handled without care... Still, we must have faith just to keep going...without trust, we cannot move on in life...

The greatest societal rule for me and others...

Being harder with the hard, being tougher with the tough, being materialistic withe the practical people, being able to ignore things beyond my personal control, being able to learn newer things  with a dynamic and flexible attitude, learning from many sources, and being straight-forward or crooked as per demand of the present situations, applying politics, diplomacy and sense of humor simultaneously......are some of the principles that have benefited me personally.... One may try these tricks with suitable modifications, as per mental, physical and spiritual orientation of the individual characteristics.... Knowledge has no boundary, it is just infinite in nature...hence we are supposed to extract the gist from multidimensional knowledge base for our own selves and hence apply them in practice... Knowledge with practice is dry and useless....

What I learnt from my senior friends....

how to be more practical with life, society and lifestyle... how to work with least of emotions... how to be vocal at times... how to deal with difficult people over telephone... how to be professional... how to act like a 'yes' man with the superior authority or boss... how to say NO with infinite force to things I don't like or subscribe to.... how to take decisions in crisis... how to control expenses... how to speak with crystal clear clarity in demand of situations... how to handle senior and junior students without much emotional attachment... how to be shamelessly straight-forward in money-matters... how to lead a more disciplined life... how to control the self and build a better self image at the work place... how to apply tenacity and determination to get things done... how to be 'patient', when insulted... how to oil people with 'soft' talking... how to act as a 'vocal orator' at times... how to remain silent in critic

In the path of spiritual realization...

In the path of spiritual realizations(one step ahead of the previous level of consciousness), there will be misunderstandings created in the minds of others...there will be conflicts with many forces in the society...but there should be 100% clarity within the self that one is slowly moving ahead toward the path of God, the path of Absolute Peace and Silence.... Crystal clarity about existence of  self  in the present time and physical non-existence after the last breath will make an interesting phenomenon to live through....Even after death, we all exist in subtle form, as Soul is indestructible...most of beings pass through the cycle of birth-death-birth-death-birth... Only a few , the greatest devotees of God exist as perpetual associates of God till eternity to fulfill His desires to do good to the living organisms in some form or the other....so that these organisms get opportunity to elevate their consciousness through devotional service to Him....and hence be placed at highe

One final thing about spiritual living...

To be spiritual means to remain engaged in actions as service to GOD....One must go on doing work that would be of some value for this generation as well as for the next....working for common people, spreading knowledge to them, doing some good to them in some form are part of serving GOD, as God exists in everything and everything that exist in Nature.... Whatever work is done must have definite purpose and hence remaining engrossed in such such purposeful and meaningful activities is what life means... Being busy with work is good and such work should benefit others too.... A totally selfish life and life of unlimited desires and possessions is like that of an animal... As death is an inevitable phenomenon, we can live a life that has deep impression on the lives of others too...then only true satisfaction and peace will be ours.... In the process, we shall also contribute to welfare of some scoundrels too, but that is a matter of probability.... It is best not to expect any

Saying NO

Saying NO is the biggest personal challenge...many times, even if, we want to say NO, because of unknown fears and fictitious notions... We must say Strongest NO, with sweetness, but 'fearlessness' is the key word in such Bold Actions.... Life can be enjoyed as a true human being, only if we live life through Bold Actions Only(BAO)...as there is no point in living a life full of fear, worries, anxieties, confusions,  and doubts... There must 100% clarity in whatever we talk about and implement in daily life.... Think-Plan-Act-&-Produce Results (TPAPR) is the crystal-clear concept in the philosophy of Management Science, as understood by me, as a student of Management....

Perfections in individuals I appreciate deeply..

Vast majority of actors of Bollywood are perfect in the art of acting and such personal excellence is the greatest source of inspiration for me... Bollywood has shown how 'how practice makes man perfect'.... One great recent event, World Cup Football matches, displayed the greatest forms of human perfection & excellence , unthinkable for ordinary person like... In human excellence lies deepest form beauty... Enjoying 'beauty' is the ultimate source of keeping hopes alive and living a life... Our only aim in life should be 'to attain perfection' in what we do in our profession as well as in our personal hobbies.... Hobbies make like life interesting and lively and dynamic... If we can keep aside 'monetary' aspects of life temporarily and immerse ourselves in beauty of life and nature, we shall reveal to ourselves 'higher levels of Truths' of life, living and existing....

Fear is the key to exploiting weaker people...

Fear is a matter of habit...many of us are habituated to be afraid of anything and everything... Once in life, we should try hard to overcome fear.... 'Trying again and again' is a great philosophy, where there could trigger a special realization that we shall be 'fearless'.... Once we get the taste of being 'fearless' in one or two occasions, we shall enjoy being 'fearless' the next time... Enjoyment of the special emotion and attitude of being 'fearless' is the highest state of human happiness leading to more enlightenment in life... Our happiness largely depends on our state of 'fearlessness' as well as 'physical and mental' health conditions...

Defining discipline for me and my students...

Today, during a counseling session of a student, I defined 'discipline with sequential aspects , such as: mechanical or physical discipline(must be imposed with tact and some sort of force) mental discipline( the art of thinking effectively so that positive and targeted results are produced systematically) spiritual discipline, as the final state of any human being....

What my two sons and my wife are teaching me now...

My family members are greatest source of inspiration and hence keep my hopes alive to fight against and defeat all my problems:  providing me enormous mental and moral support... how to struggle in life and renew my attitudes continuously... how to lead a dignified life... my elder son SIKHORENDU has now become a symbol of hard work and dedication in professional arena... my younger son SARADINDU gives me his sincere love and stands by me in all critical situations by his superior intelligent inputs... my wife SRABANI is the living symbol of personal patience, courage and enormous will power to fight out any problem... taught me how to say NO, when needed... they taught me how to deal with wrong people.... they taught me how to manage finance with tact.... they taught me how to remain mentally balanced and sound... they are teaching me how to be fearless.... they are teaching how to increase my will power some million times... they taught me how to keep faith intact in

Independent thinking and decision making for living life full..

BE YOURSELF... BE YOUR OWN CHANGE AGENT... BE YOUR OWN TRAINER... BE YOUR OWN MOTIVATOR.... LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE... ACT NOW... DO IT NOW... PRAY TO GOD... KEEP YOURSELF IN GOOD HUMOR... CREATE YOUR OWN SMILE... LAUGH AT YOUR PROBLEMS AND SOLVE THEM FROM ROOT... BE OUTSPOKEN TODAY... IGNORE THE SCOUNDRELS AND THE CROOKED ONES... LIVE WITH COURAGE TODAY... FEEL STRONG... KICK OUT WEAKNESS... REMAIN DETACHED FROM HARMFUL SIDE-EFFECTS  OF MODERN LIFE... FALL IN LOVE WITH NATURE AND ITS BEAUTY... FIND CREATIVE SOLUTIONS TO YOUR PROBLEMS... FORGET ABOUT OTHERS... PUNISH THE CHEATS IN SOME WAY OR THE OTHER... APPLY POLITICS AND DIPLOMACY TACTFULLY IN TRICKY SITUATION.. Mostly, I had been obsessed with opinion of others on important matters. But I got cheated many times from such decisions taken under influence of others..... My present philosophy now is to think deeply on a matter and take vital decisions with total personal responsibility...yes, this is quite

Hard work with detachment...

Hard work with selfless and detachment is the greatest source of an inspired living.... Ignoring the rubbish around us will ensure a better mental health and sense of happiness... Life is both a duty and a beauty...it is only fortunate few to realize this eternal truth....One needs a master to ignite the superior art of living a life...only a few get it, as the mind is full of false ego and garbage thoughts and attitudes...

Music as a mental and spiritual medicine in daily life

One good song/music/tune/one word of inspiration/one touch of compassion & selfless love  can change the very mood, spirit  and attitude of person at some some appropriate time of a day... This aspect is of great significance in one's life... At the same time, being immersed in mundane greed for money, wealth and possessions are 'stupidity' embodied, callous foolishness and against education, culture, taste and humanism... Remaining busy and producing results are basic affairs of life to sustain a decent living.... Most Interesting learning experience of my life:  Last year I went to Indian Statistical Institute, Kolkata and listened to the convocation address of Nobel Laureate Japanese Professor of Chemistry, whose name I forgot now, and his address taught the fundamental art of living a life.... The real insight into living a life of fulfillment and satisfaction: the four pillars of a great life, as described by this great personality, can be put in the f

I have become a life-long learner of human psychology...

The more I proceed with my life, the more interesting & newer things reveal themselves.... In my past life, I used to take things very casually and I used to find things quite simplified.... After long and bitter experiences of living a life, I now understand that things in everyday life is really complicated, because of enormous complexity of human mind and behaviors.... It is true that we should not go deep into each and every minor happenings around, as it is waste of time... But deeper understanding is required ,when it is your responsibility to lead a group or a team... Each member has his or her unique characteristic psychology and it is a great challenge to tune all the members and channelize their talents into superior performance for maximum productivity... Leading involves: motivating inspiring building rapport creating an environment of trust and mutual respect... cohesive actions... periodical feedback and reviews... Finally, freezing vital decisions a

Being self-reliant, independent and blissful till the end....

Self-reliance and personal independence are two great qualities... Listen to many people, but take your own decision and act on them without depending on anyone... If help is taken from somebody, reward him or her accordingly... Doing my own job is the greatest pleasure and there is no alternative to pleasing the self in this manner... Opinions vary widely, even among so-called friends...  The real intelligence lies in avoiding conflict of opinions and nonsensical debates of any kind, as faith is the strongest foundation of leading a human life... Imitating others and comparing the self with others are meant for the fools only... Be your own self... Build a better self-image... Ignore the garbage in the mind of others... Clear your own mental garbage and hence lead an enriched and enlightened life from now... An enlightened mind is in fundamentally non-participation status , in most of the physical interactions arising out of  mundane greed, passion, desires etc and remai

In bad times...

Only thing I need in bad times is extreme level of personal patience and deeper thinking to act on one vital aspect at a time... It is best not to come to any quick conclusion and fast action... I need to take more and more time to plan and act and produce results that are most favorable to me and my family members...

Bad times of my life...

Everything is going against me...many things are happening and I feel I am just leaned against a tough wall... I have compromised a lot with all types of falsehood, fake documentation, telling lies, and gross cheating taking place in front of me, just to retain my job... I know I need a job to support my family, but there is limit to everything..... I can no longer tolerate different types and of fraud and mindless exploitation of my good nature... I am fed up with what is happening to me , as a human being... Things are getting more and more intolerable and hence I am trying to develop my own business, where honesty will be the first and the last word in 'action'... I know that money or salary is important...but I want peace at the personal level... I need deeper peace... I want to reduce all my expenses to about 50% of the present value...and lead a life of honesty, peace and satisfaction... This is the toughest battle of my life to plan and implement 'quitti

What I learnt from Mr. Samrat Dutta, Kolkata

Samrat Dutta is a recitation expert in Bengali Poems...he is just excellent... I learnt recitation only for one class & found that recitation needs continuous practice for a long time... Pronunciation, intonation, ups and downs of loudness of voice, method of delivery, mood and facial expression & physical appearance are the main points to be noted for ever... Word is extremely power.... Loudness matters... but extreme control on loudness levels as per need of a situation... Extreme level of courage and self-confidence are essential for any 'performing' art.... 'Performing art' essentially requires 'acts of minor or major' dramatization... "Drama" defines everything for attaining 'excellence' in affairs of public significance and business development.... We are all basically the 'actors' in the drama of life, living and society.... How did you act in today's one-act play of today's life?.... Could you impa

We are supposed to sell self-confidence & courage in the wide , open market place....

World has now become a market, having demand for infinite number of goods and services... Life has become a business... All aspects of life are embedded with business transactions of some kind or the other... Each action we take has its 'business' significance... Customers are our temporary business partners... We are supposed to sell products to them and build 'good will' for a long term for the sustained business growth and prosperity.... Business is not meant only for making money... it also means wealth-creation...employment generation and serving society... giving back to the society we live in... If we can give 'love, service, kindness' to our customers, many of them will be retained for a long time... But majority want 'cheap' goods and services, and can not retained for a long time, as 'quality & cash' go together.... "Continuous Quality Improvement' (CQI) should be made 'mission' of our lives... Our br