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What I learnt from my senior friends....


  • how to be more practical with life, society and lifestyle...
  • how to work with least of emotions...
  • how to be vocal at times...
  • how to deal with difficult people over telephone...
  • how to be professional...
  • how to act like a 'yes' man with the superior authority or boss...
  • how to say NO with infinite force to things I don't like or subscribe to....
  • how to take decisions in crisis...
  • how to control expenses...
  • how to speak with crystal clear clarity in demand of situations...
  • how to handle senior and junior students without much emotional attachment...
  • how to be shamelessly straight-forward in money-matters...
  • how to lead a more disciplined life...
  • how to control the self and build a better self image at the work place...
  • how to apply tenacity and determination to get things done...
  • how to be 'patient', when insulted...
  • how to oil people with 'soft' talking...
  • how to act as a 'vocal orator' at times...
  • how to remain silent in critical situations and act like an 'innocent child'....
  • how to be 'rigid' at times...

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