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Independent thinking and decision making for living life full..

BE YOURSELF...
BE YOUR OWN CHANGE AGENT...
BE YOUR OWN TRAINER...
BE YOUR OWN MOTIVATOR....
LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE...
ACT NOW...
DO IT NOW...
PRAY TO GOD...
KEEP YOURSELF IN GOOD HUMOR...
CREATE YOUR OWN SMILE...
LAUGH AT YOUR PROBLEMS AND SOLVE THEM FROM ROOT...
BE OUTSPOKEN TODAY...
IGNORE THE SCOUNDRELS AND THE CROOKED ONES...
LIVE WITH COURAGE TODAY...

 FEEL STRONG...
KICK OUT WEAKNESS...
REMAIN DETACHED FROM HARMFUL SIDE-EFFECTS  OF MODERN LIFE...
FALL IN LOVE WITH NATURE AND ITS BEAUTY...
FIND CREATIVE SOLUTIONS TO YOUR PROBLEMS...
FORGET ABOUT OTHERS...
PUNISH THE CHEATS IN SOME WAY OR THE OTHER...
APPLY POLITICS AND DIPLOMACY TACTFULLY IN TRICKY SITUATION..

 Mostly, I had been obsessed with opinion of others on important matters. But I got cheated many times from such decisions taken under influence of others.....

 My present philosophy now is to think deeply on a matter and take vital decisions with total personal responsibility...yes, this is quite important for mental peace and satisfaction...
In certain special cases, one can consult others. But final decision must be taken with suitable changes and modifications,as understood by the self from deep meditation....

 Intuitive decision making , in most cases , will produce good results...

 There are infinite number of sources for giving us 'advice', and most of such things are completely nonsense....everyone pretends to be an expert on many matters and has a tendency to deliver the 'final verdict' on one or all subjects under the sky...

 Hence, it is best to move ahead with one's own intelligence , judgement, and meditative decisions only, to lead a happy and satisfied life...

 Stop dancing at the tune of others...create your own tunes and spend the day's time by dancing under your unique tunes....peace lies here, now and within you....others can never contribute to your inner states of happiness...

 Be your own trainer, motivator, leader and throw out all 'bull-shit' advice given freely by others...

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