Yes, mind can be programmed by being harsh to ourselves...

Think, decide, and act on what needs to be done....

Stand firmly on what you decided... 

Stop vacillating... 

Be your own friend and master too. 

Don't dance at the tune of others... 

Create your own tunes to make your life easier and beautiful... 

Live with nature to be a better personality... 

Nature is our best tutor... 

Work devotedly and be happy at the end of the day...